Just a reminder that Paul and I recognize that not all men will have sexual fulfillment or affirmation as their top two emotional needs! And that not all women will have affection or conversation as their top two emotional needs. The key point is to discover those needs that if unmet make you unhappy and if met make you feel loved. And for those of you single -work on the other needs (obviously) Becoming and expert at anything takes time and practice. We hope that everyone knows that we love only because Christ loved us and gave himself for us. This model of sacrificial, unconditional love should go without saying in our relationships as Christ followers, yet we still need to acknowledge our foundation is the Biblical view of marriage and singleness. So with that in mind, just what does this “sacrificial” love look like? What does it look like to me on a daily basis as I live out my life! Well, emphatically, conveying and displaying “unconditional, sacrificial love” looks differently to each individual! So work on it, discover it and for you married couples, you found it once and must have been pretty good at it in the beginning of your relationship or you would have never married in the first place right So re-discover it!
With much love,
Susie
Well yesterday we launched the 30 day sex challenge amid a huge buzz across the nation. Susie and I began reading our journal this morning and I can tell you that this journey is going to be amazing. We had the privilege of helping develop all of this stuff but when we actually just did the questions and read the verses together this morning it was incredible. I am so looking forward to connecting with my wife on a deeper level over the next 30 days. Here is the verse from today for the Married Couples I think it is pretty cool.
Hebrews 13:4
Let marriage be kept honorable in every way, and the marriage bed undefiled. For God will judge those who commit sexual sins, especially those who commit adultery.
Now the word that jumped out at me was the word Honor and I thought how fitting to place the word honor at the beginning of our journey. Because honor is where it all starts. When I honor my wife by meeting her emotional needs she feels secure and her love for me increases. When I do not honor her and fail to meet her needs she feels insecure and her love for me decreases. The same if true for me. So as we begin this journey let’s start with honoring each other and loving each other the way Christ showed us how. If you have not taken your test yet please do it today because that is where it all starts - with our emotional needs. If you are one of our online participates. You can download the questionaire here. It is at the bottom of the page. This test is key to the success of the 30 days. DON’T SKIP THIS PART.
Enjoy the journey!! We will talk tomorrow. If you are one of our online participants please send us an email letting us know where you are from so we can track the success of this program.
Have a Great Day,
Paul
As you are probably aware, we have had tons of media coverage lately. Whether it’s the front page of the TBT or a national story running on fox news, people are paying attention. We couldn’t be happier, because the more people paying attention, the more relationships change for the better. If you’d like to keep tabs on what’s being said, just go to our youtube page.
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