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Daily Archive for February 21st, 2008

I’m taking the challenge - Mike

We just received this from Mike

I have had some interesting conversations with work colleagues and friends alike on this challenge of ours. Every person I have talked to seems to have the same question for the singles challenge, “How can you truly progress in a relationship without knowing about such a large part of the relationship with physical and sexual chemistry?” Having been a sexually active single adult male, I have to admit that the thought had crossed my mind. Recently, prior to the 30-day sex challenge, I decided to leave sex out of the scenario and really focus on the woman I was interested in. I have discovered, at least in my own life, that I rushed to see how compatible I was sexually with my past relationships rather than truly getting to know the person I was with and deciding if we were really compatible as a couple.

If you haven’t considered giving this challenge a try I would highly recommend it. All there is to lose is 30 days of some hibidty-dibity, but if you have the results that I have had then you might be surprised to see how truthful you can be with yourself about your relationships. What I mean by that is simple. Before, I took this step of leaving sex out, I had been in several long term relationships where sex had been more of a focus than honestly looking at our personal differences to see if our relationship could stand on it’s own two feet without one of us having to be on our back. Good Luck.

Our favorite news story so far

We have had multiple news outlets cover our challenge.  The best one so far was from Mike and Juliet in the morning on FOX.  It was about an 11 minute piece, and we feel they did an excellent job of telling the whole story.  The hosts even appeared to know the material we were presenting, which was awesome.  Go here to check it out!

Contribute Anonymously

Things have been going great so far on this 30 day sex challenge. We have been so encouraged by all of the stories we have heard so far. We would like to invite you to add your story to the blog. Email us at blog@relevantchurch.com so we can post your story. Also, please specify if you want it to be anonymous, and we will make that happen for you.