Comments on: Giver and Taker http://blog.relevantchurch.com/2008/02/29/43/ where culture meets christ Sat, 11 Oct 2008 09:29:30 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: mary http://blog.relevantchurch.com/2008/02/29/43/#comment-110 mary Sun, 09 Mar 2008 21:17:32 +0000 http://blog.relevantchurch.com/2008/02/29/43/#comment-110 I would like to speak on behalf of myself and about five of my women friends. We had not heard of this challenge, but a few days ago we started talking and have decided to have sex with our husbands everyday for a month. So as for us, it was the women's idea. Later, another friend told us to look up this website. We really believe that this is something that can be a blessing to our husbands and can't wait to see where it will bring us. The reality is that we know that if we are a blessing to our husbands we end up being shown more love by them as well. Women, I really think you should consider committing for the full month. If you really hate it, it only 30 days of your life and you can go back to normal. I would like to speak on behalf of myself and about five of my women friends. We had not heard of this challenge, but a few days ago we started talking and have decided to have sex with our husbands everyday for a month. So as for us, it was the women’s idea. Later, another friend told us to look up this website. We really believe that this is something that can be a blessing to our husbands and can’t wait to see where it will bring us. The reality is that we know that if we are a blessing to our husbands we end up being shown more love by them as well. Women, I really think you should consider committing for the full month. If you really hate it, it only 30 days of your life and you can go back to normal.

]]> By: stacym http://blog.relevantchurch.com/2008/02/29/43/#comment-92 stacym Sun, 02 Mar 2008 20:17:21 +0000 http://blog.relevantchurch.com/2008/02/29/43/#comment-92 We don't go to the Relevent Church...don't even live in the region. But my husband and I, married over 20 years, have taken the challenge. William poses an interesting question about whether women were consulted. I really understand that thought! I'm probably more like his wife, but I chose to take this on faith as an act of commitment and obedience. I will readily admit that it isn't always the thing I want to do, but as I submit my mind, my heart, my spirit to the covenant of marriage and literally see the sacrifice of Christ in the midst, it is amazing how responsive my heart (and my body!) has been. This has been a precious time of intimacy for us, and a real time of healing. I'm awed at the emotional growth we are experiencing at a truly new level. I pray that God will hugely bless this process in the marriages and lives of all participants. We don’t go to the Relevent Church…don’t even live in the region. But my husband and I, married over 20 years, have taken the challenge. William poses an interesting question about whether women were consulted. I really understand that thought! I’m probably more like his wife, but I chose to take this on faith as an act of commitment and obedience. I will readily admit that it isn’t always the thing I want to do, but as I submit my mind, my heart, my spirit to the covenant of marriage and literally see the sacrifice of Christ in the midst, it is amazing how responsive my heart (and my body!) has been. This has been a precious time of intimacy for us, and a real time of healing. I’m awed at the emotional growth we are experiencing at a truly new level. I pray that God will hugely bless this process in the marriages and lives of all participants.

]]> By: William http://blog.relevantchurch.com/2008/02/29/43/#comment-89 William Sat, 01 Mar 2008 12:20:42 +0000 http://blog.relevantchurch.com/2008/02/29/43/#comment-89 I really appreciate what you and your husband are doing. I am married, but have been inspired by the singles on this blog who have really strived to do things God's way. My wife wondered if women had been consulted about the idea of sex everyday for 30 days. She enjoys it, but not just that much. I decided that we would work on our relationship regardless of whether we had sex everyday, I know the better our relationship, the better the sex will be, and we have had some good conversations. I really appreciate what you and your husband are doing. I am married, but have been inspired by the singles on this blog who have really strived to do things God’s way.

My wife wondered if women had been consulted about the idea of sex everyday for 30 days. She enjoys it, but not just that much.

I decided that we would work on our relationship regardless of whether we had sex everyday, I know the better our relationship, the better the sex will be, and we have had some good conversations.

]]> By: Brandon http://blog.relevantchurch.com/2008/02/29/43/#comment-88 Brandon Sat, 01 Mar 2008 03:34:10 +0000 http://blog.relevantchurch.com/2008/02/29/43/#comment-88 Yeah.. When I saw Paul's weekly Relevant update, your story resounded like crazy with me. I haven't been feeling good the past few days either, and I really don't feel like giving much. I've been very minimalist, and that's not the right thing. Thankfully, my wife and I addressed it this evening, and we're both getting back on track.. Yeah.. When I saw Paul’s weekly Relevant update, your story resounded like crazy with me. I haven’t been feeling good the past few days either, and I really don’t feel like giving much. I’ve been very minimalist, and that’s not the right thing. Thankfully, my wife and I addressed it this evening, and we’re both getting back on track..

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